Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Motherhood

Oh how I loved THIS TALK from General Conference. It reminded me of my role as a mother. And encouraged me to refocus on this role, and work on some areas of improvement. As I'm pondering these thoughts, thinking of the divinity of my calling as mother, in comes Hallie with her pants around her ankles "I need wiped Mommy". As I was saying...

He referenced author "Anna Quindlen reminds us not to rush past the fleeting moments. She said: “The biggest mistake I made [as a parent] is the one that most of us make. . . . I did not live in the moment enough. This is particularly clear now that the moment is gone, captured only in photographs. There is one picture of [my three children] sitting in the grass on a quilt in the shadow of the swing set on a summer day, ages six, four, and one. And I wish I could remember what we ate, and what we talked about, and how they sounded, and how they looked when they slept that night. I wish I had not been in such a hurry to get on to the next thing: dinner, bath, book, bed. I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less”(Loud and Clear [2004], 10–11)."

Hallie just said "I love helping clean up the living room mom!" And now she's playing with her sister in that pokey kind of way. Laila smiles and chuckles with her big belly, and hair that is slowly growing, but has produced one little curl over her ear. She's grabbing Hallie's hair and in response Hallie said "Can I get a little help here?". These are my children, right now. And off I go, to spend some time with my quickly aging children. Take the time to share what your children are doing RIGHT NOW.

5 comments:

Harmony said...

This is so the post I needed today--thank you! I love coming to your blog. It's so positive and WONDERFUL!

Monique said...

My little dears are FINALLY all asleep. After three attempts. 1. A giggle fest 2. A reminder for me to do something (as if I would forget) and 3. Because they heard Dylan waking up and wanted to be the informants. :) my little sweets...

Unknown said...

Thanks Lucy for sharing such a great reminder. Sometimes I want Eliza to be able to play more so we can do more things, but then I always remember to just enjoy her right now as she is. What a great reminder to start out my day.

Emily said...

I loved this talk, I just felt like it was written for me! Thanks for the reminder to enjoy the little moments.

The Maschger Family said...

AMEN!

Tam :-)